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Monday, April 17, 2006

Talk of Astrology: This Ain't About Me


I claim myself to be an astrologer by hobby. So I signed myself up with an astrology-related blog ring where they post the title of every new blog entries. Yet, I rarely talk about astrology on my blog. Isn’t that an act of deceiving? So much to talk about Sienna, I left out a lot of things. Only recently I opened up to some areas in Daddy’s art career. Now I might as well give some floor for the astrological aspects of my thinking. Better still, if I have the time, I would love to have a blog devoted to astrology.

I was prompted to write this entry also because I bumped into an astrological advice site. An astrologer was guiding a young woman who was dating a married man and feeling guilty and hopeless. The supposedly wise one suggested that she should stop the fling immediately by making a phone call to the cheating guy, like this:

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Briiiiiiiiinnnnng! Briiinnnnnng!

“Hello?”

“It’s me. .... ... Well, I’m done now. I’ve changed my mind. Please don’t call me again.”

*Click.

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This might sound like a right piece of advice. Probably too right to be astrologically right. The advice giver did mention that the subject has a plenty of Scorpio to make her decision stick if she makes up her mind. But she doesn’t seem to acknowledge this Scorpio young woman first of all sticks to her emotions once they are aroused, which happen to be her attachment to this cheating guy in this case.

If I were this young lady, reading the advice would make me want to date the guy more, with a lot more guilt… it’s extremely difficult for a Scorpio to do the RIGHT things. They are free when they are guilt free. I am pretty sure she will give up on her own willingness or she will make him give up his relationship for her… She will not gather enough will power to do either of these when she feels guilty.

If I were the astrologer giving our advice, I would suggest that the young woman should acknowledge the validity of the bonding — doesn’t matter how bazaar it might sound. I will set her free by making her guilt free. I will for sure ask her to get the guy’s chart and tell what each of them want from this fling and if they are able to get it eventually. I will not switch her emotions but provide optional venues to channel her emtions...

I happen to be a Scorpio with venues in Scorpio like this woman. Astrologically, I don’t have to act like her in order to understand her. I happen to be an astrology by hobby, I know what would be good astrologically based advice when I read one.

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